We can also use conical frusta in place of cylindrical disks to "better" approximate the exact volume, but the end result is the same. One can deform a cylinder into a conical frustum while still preserving its height and volume.
Take a small interval $[x_1,x_2] \subset [a,b]$. The frustum constructed over this interval has volume
$$V_{\rm frustum} = \frac\pi3\left({x_2}^3-{x_1}^3\right)$$
Widen the interval by a short length $\Delta x$, so that we get a slightly larger frustum with volume
$$V'_{\rm frustum} = \frac\pi3 \left(\left(x_2+\Delta x\right)^3 - {x_1}^3\right)$$
The net change in volume is
$$\Delta V = V' - V = \frac{\pi\Delta x}3 \left(3{x_2}^2 + 3(\Delta x) x_2 + (\Delta x)^2\right)$$
Dividing both sides by $\Delta x$ and letting $\Delta x\to0$ yields
$$\lim_{\Delta x\to0} \frac{\Delta V}{\Delta x} = \frac{dV}{dx} = \pi {x_2}^2$$
As we raise the number of frusta, $x_1\to x_2$ and we can simply write $x_2$ as $x$. Then the volume of the solid is
$$V = \int dV = \int_a^b \pi x^2 \, dx$$
Contrast this process with cylindrical disks, for which we can choose
$$V_{\rm disk} = \pi {x_2}^2 (x_2-x_1) \\
V'_{\rm disk} = \pi \left(x+\Delta x\right)^2 \left((x_2+\Delta x)-x_1\right) \\
\Delta V = \pi \Delta x \left(3{x_2}^2-2x_1x_2+(3x_2-x_1)\Delta x + (\Delta x)^2\right) \\
\implies \frac{dV}{dx} = \pi \left(3{x_2}^2-2x_1x_2\right) \to \pi {x_2}^2$$