My previous answer was too involved and came to the wrong conclusion for some reason.
The answer is you need the plus sign.
The surface $B$ is the boundary of an elliptic paraboloid. I gather that $z\ge 0\,.$ The inward pointing unit normal vector at $B$ is
$$\tag{1}
\mathbf{n}=\frac{1}{\sqrt{x^2+y^2+4}}\begin{pmatrix}-x\\-y\\2\end{pmatrix}\,.
$$
Following Ted Shifrin's comment: The normal vector is
$$\tag{2}
\frac{\partial f}{\partial u}\times \frac{\partial f}{\partial v}=\begin{pmatrix}1\\0\\\frac{u}{2}\end{pmatrix}\times \begin{pmatrix}0\\1\\\frac{v}{2}\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}-\frac{u}{2}\\-\frac{v}{2}\\\color{red}{+}1\end{pmatrix}
$$
when surface parametrized by $f(u,v)=(u,v,(u^2+v^2)/4)^\top\,.$
The normal vector (2) has positive $z$-component and points inward like $\mathbf{n}$ does.
The flux of $F$ through $P$ in the direction of those normal vectors is
$$
\int_PF\cdot \mathbf{n}\,dS=
\int_K
F\cdot\Big\{\frac{\partial f}{\partial u}\times \frac{\partial f}{\partial v}\Big\}\,du\,dv\,.\tag{3}
$$
(The reason why the cross product does not need to be normalized
is discussed in this answer.)
To bring (3) into a notation using differential forms we write
$f=(x,y,z)^\top\,.$ Then the components of $\{\frac{\partial f}{\partial u}\times \frac{\partial f}{\partial v}\}\,du\,dv
$ are
\begin{align}
\Big\{\frac{\partial y}{\partial u}\frac{\partial z}{\partial v}-\frac{\partial z}{\partial u}\frac{\partial y}{\partial v}\Big\}\,du\,dv
&=dy\wedge dz\,,\\
\Big\{\frac{\partial z}{\partial u}\frac{\partial x}{\partial v}-\frac{\partial x}{\partial u}\frac{\partial z}{\partial v}\Big\}\,du\,dv
&=dz\wedge dx\,,\\
\Big\{\frac{\partial x}{\partial u}\frac{\partial y}{\partial v}-\frac{\partial y}{\partial u}\frac{\partial x}{\partial v}\Big\}\,du\,dv
&=dx\wedge dy\,.
\end{align}
Therefore with the desired inward orientation of $\mathbf{n}$ the flux is
$$
\int_PF\cdot \mathbf{n}\,dS=\int_PF_x\,dy\wedge dz+F_y\,dz\wedge dx+F_z\,dx\wedge dy\,.
$$
In your case this is calculated by the RHS of (3) and using (2) as
$$
\int_K\frac{-v}{\frac{u^2+v^2}{4}}(\frac{-u}{2})-\frac{u}{\color{red}{\frac{u^2+v^2}{4}}}(\frac{v}{2})+\frac{v}{u-\frac{u^2+v^2}{4}}\,du\,dv
$$
where I fixed an error of yours.