I very recently asked a question here about finding the tangent to a tilted parabola but this was only part of a larger question I had. I figured that I would be able to solve it myself with answers to this question but I am still completely stumped.
The equation of a parabola with directrix $l_1x+m_1y+n_1=0$ and focus $P(x_P,y_P)$ is $$\frac{(l_1x+m_1y+n_1)^2}{{l_1}^2+{m_1}^2}=(x-x_P)^2+(y-y_P)^2$$
This parabola is then $S_1\equiv a_1x^2+2h_1xy+b_1y^2+2g_1x+2f_1y+c_1=0$ where \begin{align} a_1 &= -{m_1}^2 \\ h_1 &= l_1m_1 \\ b_1 &= -{l_1}^2 \\ g_1 &= n_1l_1+\left({l_1}^2+{m_1}^2\right)x_P \\ f_1 &= m_1n_1+\left({l_1}^2+{m_1}^2\right)y_P \\ c_1 &= {n_1}^2-\left({l_1}^2+{m_1}^2\right)\left({x_P}^2+{y_P}^2\right) \end{align}
Likewise the second parabola has the directrix $l_2x+m_2y+n_2=0$ and focus $Q(x_Q,y_Q)$. The equation is the same as the first except all the 1's become 2's and $P$'s become $Q$'s in the subscripts.
I know that it is possible for there to be up to three tangent lines common to both of these parabolas but I am unable to find any of them.
I believe that I need to go one of two routes. The first is using calculus to find the derivative $\mathrm{d}y/\mathrm{d}x$ of each parabola and, knowing that the slopes of the parabolas must be equal at some point $A(x_A,y_A)$ (actually three points) set the values equal and somehow come up with the tangent. The second is not using calculus. I know that the tangent at $A$ to $S_1=0$ has the equation $$T_A\equiv (a_1x_A+h_1y_A+g_1)x+(h_1x_A+b_1y_A+f_1)y+g_1x_A+f_1y_A+c_1=0$$ So we must have $T_A=T_B$ where $T_B$ is the tangent line through $B$ on $S_2=0$. However I don't think this way will yield all the tangents.
While writing this question I found this. This is my exact question asked over two years ago except significantly lacking detail and without answers. I am unable to add a bounty to that question and I believe that this question is more likely to receive useful answers.