I'll present you the way I always approach these kinds of problems. You can or should be able to transform this into a rigorous argument. However, if you have any questions, feel free to ask them!
First, we try to find how quick the inside converges to $0$, i.e., how quick does this standard limit converge to $e$. Thereto, we take the logarithm of the stuff inside
$$\log\left(\left(1+\frac1n\right)^n\right) = n\log\left(1+\frac1n\right) = n\cdot\left(\frac1n - \frac{1}{2n^2} +O(n^{-3})\right) = 1 -\frac{1}{2n} +O(n^{-2})$$
Hence,
$$1-\frac1e\left(1+\frac1n\right)^n = 1-\frac1e\cdot \exp\left(1-\frac1{2n}+O(n^{-2})\right) = 1 - \exp\left(-\frac1{2n}+O(n^{-2})\right)$$
Finally, we need to multiply this with $n$. Can you finish this?
Since you added a bounty. Let me finish this for you. So in the end it boils down by finding the limit
$$\lim_{n\to\infty} n\left(1 - \exp\left(-\frac1{2n}+O(n^{-2})\right)\right)$$
Taylor states that
$$\exp\left(-\frac1{2n}+O(n^{-2})\right) = 1 - \frac1{2n} + O(n^{-2})$$
And thus,
$$\lim_{n\to\infty} n\left(1 - \exp\left(-\frac1{2n}+O(n^{-2})\right)\right) =\lim_{n\to\infty} n\left(\frac1{2n} + O(n^{-2})\right)=\lim_{n\to\infty}\frac12 +O(n^{-1}) =\frac12$$
Does this make sense?