Before I begin, I understand why inner products need to maintain conjugate symmetry as seen in this post. This is not what my question is directly about. My motivation is to derive complex Fourier series through the complex inner product.
Suppose we have an inner product defined as $$\langle f,g\rangle=\int_a^b{f(x)\overline{g(x)}dx}$$
I have seen that the projection of a function $f$ onto $g$ is then defined as: $$\left(\frac{\langle f,g \rangle}{\langle g,g \rangle}\right)g=\left(\frac{1}{{\Vert g\Vert}^2}\int_{a}^{b}{f(x)}\overline{g(x)}dx\right)g$$
From this, I have previously taken the inner product (or really the dot product) to intuitively be the scaled norm of the projection of $f$ onto $g$ (that is, projecting $f$ onto $g$ and then scaling it by the norm of $g$). Combined with the fact the inner product of a vector with itself is the square of its norm, this means that the equation for projection is essentially dividing out the norm of $g$ from inner product of $f$ with $g$ in order to get the length of the component of $f$ along $g$, and then driving in the direction of $g$ by multiplying the component by a normalized version of $g$.
Something important to this intuition to me was that the inner product with purely real functions is symmetric. When dealing only with real valued vectors/functions, the operation of projecting $f$ onto $g$ and scaling it by $g$ is the same as projecting $g$ onto $f$ and scaling it by $f$. In other words, the order of the arguments don't matter. $$\langle f,g\rangle = \int_a^b{f(x)g(x)dx} = \int_a^b{g(x)f(x)dx} = \langle g,f\rangle$$
However, this is not the case with complex valued function. Why, in the complex case, do we interpret the function that is conjugated in the integral ($g$) to be the function we are projecting onto? Why could we not interpret the function that we are taking the conjugate of to be the function we are projecting onto another function instead?
In essence, why is $$\langle f,g\rangle=\int_a^b{f(x)\overline{g(x)}dx}$$ interpreted projecting $f$ onto $g$ while $$\langle g,f\rangle=\int_a^b{g(x)\overline{f(x)}dx}$$ interpreted as projecting g onto f?
Where does conjugation fit into this geometric intuition behind projection (if it does)?