Obviously, a unit of measurement (which doesn't measure quantity) can't be a real number.
However, the measurements with that unit can be a real number (2$\pi$ radians, 54 degrees, 0.23 revolutions, ...)
In your question, you have stated that "radian" should be a real number because we use it widely in calculus. However, the example you gave ($\lim_{x \to 0} \frac{\sin x}{x} $) doesn't imply that a radian is a real number (specifically because sin x is a real number, and sin is defined in radians). You might find other equations in calculus or trig that involve radians, but they always fall into one of these categories:
- those equations directly use radians (an oversimplified example can be $\frac{d\theta}{dx}$), which returns an answer in (an unit used to measure angles). There aren't any connections between the radian (or any other units) and real numbers here.
- those equations involve radians, but actually returns real numbers. In that case, there must be a function that takes in an angle measurement and returns a real number (take the trig functions for example) (you won't find any equations that doesn't involve those functions). Which, again, doesn't make any connections between radians and real numbers.
Degrees are also an unit that we use to measure angles (1 degree = $\frac{\pi}{180}$ radians). Therefore, we can have valid equations (not just in calculus but in other fields as well) using degrees.
we just need to multiply the measurement in degrees with $\frac{180}{\pi}$
In conclusion, radians (and degrees) are just units that we use to measure angles (in the same way that a meter is used to measure lengths or a gram is used to measure mass), and they aren't equivalent to any real numbers (in the same way that you can't convert a meter to kilograms).
(sorry if this answer is confusing - this is my first answer ever)