Let $L/K$ a finite field extension. We can endow the tensor product $L \otimes_K L$ with structure of $L$-algebra via $L \to L \otimes_K L,\ l \mapsto l \otimes 1_L$. Therfore $L \otimes_K L$ carries also structure of a $L$-module via $L$-multiplication in first factor $l \cdot (a \otimes b) := la \otimes b$.
Let $d: L \otimes_K L \to L, a \otimes b \mapsto ab$ be the canonical
diagonal map and denote it's kernel by $I:= \operatorname{ker}(d)$.
I have once already asked in Tensor product $L \otimes_K L$ has no nilpotent elements iff $I/I^2=0$ about the proof of the statement that
$L \otimes_K L$ reduced (has no nilpotent elements) is equivalent to $I= I^2$, ie $I/I^2=0$
I obtained there a completely satisfying answer but nevertheless I'm still badly curious if it is also possible to give a 'constructive' proof in the sense that if $L \otimes_K L$ is not reduced, so it contains a nilpotent non zero $a \in L \otimes_K L$, then this $a$ helps me to to construct an explicit element $i(a) \in I \backslash I^2$ and vice versa a $b \in I \backslash I^2$ helps to construct a nilpotent $a(b) \in \sqrt{(0)} \subset L \otimes_K L$.
Question: Are such direct constructions here feasible?
Note: we can use the fact that $I/I^2$ is generated as $L$-module by $a \otimes 1_L -1_L \otimes a, a \in L$.