Let $L \supset K$ be a finite extension of fields. The diagonal $L \otimes_K L$ we can endow with structure of $L$ algebra via $L \to L \otimes_K L,\ l \mapsto l \otimes 1_L$. Especially $L \otimes_K L$ carries structure of a $L$-module via $L$-multiplication in first factor $l \cdot (a \otimes b) := la \otimes b$.
Let $d: L \otimes_K L \to L, a \otimes b \mapsto ab $ be the diagonal map and $I$ its kernel.
I want to show that $L \otimes_K L$ is reduced (has no nilpotent elements) iff $I = I^2$, i.e. $I/I^2=0$.
Ideas: We can simplify the problem if we choose an more accessible system of generators for $L$-module $I/I^2$. I claim that $a \otimes 1_L -1_L \otimes a$ for $a \in L$ generate $I/I^2$ as $L$-module.
That's because $a \otimes b = ab \otimes 1 - a \cdot (b \otimes 1 - 1 \otimes b)$ (recall $I$ carries $L$-module structure by multiplication in first factor) and therefore for $\sum a_i \otimes b_i \in I$ we obtain by linearity
$$\sum a_i \otimes b_i = (\sum a_i b_i) \otimes 1 - \sum a_i \cdot (b_i \otimes 1 - 1 \otimes b_i)= \sum a_i \cdot (b_i \otimes 1 - 1 \otimes b_i)$$
Therefore it suffice to show that $L \otimes_K L$ is reduced iff every $a \otimes 1 - 1 \otimes a, a \in L$ is modulo $I^2$ a product of two other such $x \otimes 1 - 1 \otimes x, y \otimes 1 - 1 \otimes y, x, y \in L$.
How can I do it?
Note: If we realize that $I/I^2$ can be interpreted as module of Kahler differentials $\Omega_L$ and we use another more usual construction of $\Omega_L$ as certain quotient of some free $\bigoplus_iK[x_1,..., x_n] dx_i$ use some standard exact sequences between Kahler differentials then the claim
follows immediately. But I want to know if it possible to show the claim directly(!) working only with definition of $I/I^2$ instead of making a detour over quoting results known for Kahler differntials.