I'm reading Learning to Reason by Nancy Rodgers, and she says:
"Truth cannot be absolute in mathematics. Truth is relative, relative to the system that we construct for it."
"Today we consider an axiom to be nothing more than a sentence that is assumed true for a particular system. The same sentence could possibly be false in another system"
then she gives an example (you don't need to read it all, it's just an example):
The axioms for Euclidean geometry were based on the human visual perception of straight lines, but our visual perception is limited to very small distances. Our intuitive notion of straightness is based completely on light rays. Einstein predicted that a ray of light would be curved over large distances. Light rays are distorted by a gravitational field. The gravitational field comes from all the mass hanging out in that vicinity. The mass is hanging out there because of the curvature of space. An axiomatic system that models space as curved is different from Euclidean geometry. Even though we have curves in Euclidean geometry, space itself is not curved. Euclidean geometry is a good model of physical space when we are only concerned with small distances, when cosmic distances are involved, non-Euclidean geometry may provide a better model.
Now, I don't know if I'm misinterpreting things, but if "truth cannot be absolute in mathematics" does it mean that it can't be true "for everyone in the universe"? I've always thought about math like the realest thing someone can know, something that everyone in the universe must know (for example, if an ant doesn't have any food, it understands that it has $0$ food, so it knows about quantities).
So my question is, do these paragraphs mean that an axiom or a rule in general is not always true in every system, or it means that math is true only "in our heads" because we think of it in this way?