This proof depends on the elementary identity
$$ \prod_{n=1}^m a+n(n-1) = (1-q)_m (q)_m \quad , \quad q=\frac{1}{2}(1+\sqrt{1-4a})) $$
where the symbol $(q)_m$ is the Pochhammer symbol, $(q)_m=\Gamma(q+m)/\Gamma(a).$ (To prove it, factor the polynomial within the product.) Take the logarithmic derivative with respect to $a$ of the left-hand side,
$$ \frac{d}{da} \log\Big(\prod_{n=1}^m a+n(n-1) \Big) = \sum_{n=1}^m\frac{1}{a+n(n-1)}$$
Do the same to the right-hand side and take $m \to \infty.$ I'm too lazy to do the work and typeset it, so I'll show the Mathematica code:
$$\text{Limit[ D[ Log[ Product[ a+n(n-1),{n,1,m}]], a], m->Infinity] }$$
The answer, of course is the same as above,
$$\sum_{n=1}^m\frac{1}{a+n(n-1)} = \frac{\pi}{\sqrt{1-4a}} \tan( \frac{\pi}{2} \sqrt{1-4a} )$$
If you do the work by hand, you'll probably need the dilogarithm reflection formula, and asymptotics of the dilogarithm and gamma function.