I would like someone to verify the calcuations that I'm making about the tangent spaces of $O(n)$, and help answer some general questions that I have from this special case. I don't know much about Lie theory at all, so I'm flying by the seat of my pants here :)
So, we have the space $O(n) \equiv \{ X | X^TX = I \}$. It's not hard to show that the tangent space should satisfy the constraint: tangent space at $P \in O(n) \equiv T_P O(n) \equiv \{ Z | Z^T P + P^T Z = 0\}$.
Now, by performing the usual Lie algebra trick of "calculate tangent space at identity", we see that:
$$ T_I O(n) = \{ Z | Z^T + Z = 0 \} $$
Next, to calculate the tangent space at some arbitrary point $P \in O(n)$, we consider the map: $$ f: O(n) \rightarrow O(n) \qquad f(X) = PX $$ Note that $f(I) = P$, and hence the differential of this map, $df$ will have the type $df: T_I O(n) \rightarrow T_P O(n)$. Now, all that's left to do is to calculate the differential.
To perform this, we take a curve: $$ c: (-\epsilon, \epsilon) \rightarrow O(n) \qquad c(t) = e^{Kt} \qquad K^T = -K $$
This has image in $O(n)$, since
$$ c(t)^T c(t) = e^{K^T t}e^{Kt} = e^{t(K^T + K)} = e^{t\cdot 0} = I $$
Hence, this is a valid curve.
Now, we compute $df$:
$$ df \equiv \frac{d}{dt} (f \circ c)(t) \vert_{t = 0} = \frac{d}{dt} P e^{Kt} \vert_{t=0} = PKe^{K0} = PK $$
Hence, the tangent space at the point $P$ is $T_PO(n) \equiv \{ PK | K^T + K = 0 \}$
I am uncomfortable with many things that "automatically work" in this proof:
Is this proof correct? If not, where is it wrong?
Why is the choice of the integral curve $c(t) = e^{Kt}$ the "correct" choice? How do I prove that the mapping of tangent spaces is indeed a bijection, and not some artefact of the curve parametrization I chose?
What is the "general form" of this proof, for an arbitrary matrix Lie group $M$? Can I state that the tangent space at a point $P$ will be of the form $T_P M \equiv \{ PZ \mid Z \in T_I M \}$? If not, why is this not correct?
Is there a slick proof of this fact?