Suppose not. Then for some $ϵ>0$ and for every $N∈\mathbb N$, there exists $n≥N$ such that $|a_n|>ϵ_n$. This is far from enough to conclude that $∑_n|a_n|=∞$. I think there might be counterexamples to the statement. Other than this I don't see what could be useful here.
Note that the monotonicity assumption has been dropped from this classical problem:
Series converges implies $\lim_{n\to\infty}a_n=0$
Suppose $\sum |a_n|$ converges. Is it true that $\lim_{n\to\infty}n|a_n|=0$?