Question: Suppose $\sum |a_n|<\infty$. Is it true that $\lim_{n\to\infty}n|a_n|=0$?
Suppose not. Then for some $\epsilon>0$ and for every $N\in{\bf N}$, there exists $n\geq N$ such that $$ |a_n|>\frac{\epsilon}{n}. $$ This is far from enough to conclude that $\sum |a_n|=\infty$. I think there might be counterexamples to the statement. Other than this I don't see what could be useful here.
Note that the monotonicity assumption has been dropped from this classical problem: