$(2)$ is correct as Index raising and lowering is based on a canonical map which is conjugate-linear.
Let $H$ denote the given Hermitian space with Hermitian form
$\,\langle\cdot|\cdot\rangle\,$, assumed to be conjugate-linear in its first slot and linear in the second. Synonymously, many people would say that $H$ is a finite-dimensional complex Hilbert space.
Denote by $H^*$ the dual space. Each $v\in H$ defines a linear functional
$\,{}_v\ell\in H^*$ by
$${}_v\ell (x)\: =\:\langle\, v\mid x\,\rangle\quad\forall\,x\in H.$$
The correspondence $\,v\longmapsto{}_v\ell\,$ is, by the Riesz representation theorem, a conjugate-linear isometric isomorphism from
$ H$ onto $H^*$. (This remains true in the $\infty$-dimensional case.)
Coordinates come into play after choosing a basis
$\{\epsilon_j\}\subset H$. The latter uniquely determines the dual basis $\{\epsilon^k\}$ of $H^*$ satisfying $\epsilon^k(\epsilon_j)=\delta^k_j$.
Let $g_{jk}:=\langle\epsilon_j|\epsilon_k\rangle$ which is a Hermitian matrix because $\,g_{jk} = \overline{g_{kj}}\,$.
The summation convention is adopted in the sequel. Apply $\,{}_v\ell\,$ to the basis vectors, first in the Riesz representation
$${}_v\ell(\epsilon_k)\: =\: \langle\,v^{\,j}\epsilon_j\mid\epsilon_k\,\rangle
\: =\: \overline v^{\,j}g_{jk}$$
then in writing it w.r.to the dual basis
$${}_v\ell(\epsilon_k)\: =\: \left({}_v\ell_{\!j}\,\epsilon^{\,j}\right)(\epsilon_k)\: =\: {}_v\ell_k\,.$$
This yields
$${}_v\ell_k\:=\:\overline v^{\,j}g_{jk}\:=\:\overline{g_{kj}v^{\,j}}$$
which is $(2)$, the desired Index lowering: The matrix $\,g\,$ maps the coordinate vector of $v\in H$ to the coordinate vector of ${}_v\ell\in H^*$,
and the overline shows the overall conjugate-linear relationship.