I have this system
$$\begin{align*} & \cos\theta\left(r+\frac 1r\right)=-2\\ & r^2+\frac 1{r^2}+4\cos^2\theta=10\end{align*}$$
I solved for $r$ and $\cos\theta$ by first squaring the first equation$$r^2+\frac 1{r^2}=\frac 4{\cos^2\theta}-2$$So$$\frac 4{\cos^2\theta}+4\cos^2\theta=12\quad\implies\quad\cos\theta=\frac {\pm1\pm\sqrt5}2$$
Question: However after this, I'm not sure which value of the cosine I should take. The result used is $\cos\theta=1/\phi$, but I'm not sure why the other three solutions were discarded. The full solutions are$$\cos\theta=\frac 1{\phi}\quad\qquad\quad r=\phi+\sqrt \phi$$where $\phi=\tfrac 12\left(1+\sqrt5\right)$.
For context, I'm working out this problem which was solved by Ron Gordon. I'm having a hard time figuring out why he chose $1/\phi$ and $\phi+\sqrt{\phi}$.