Instead of breaking down the problem coordinate by coordinate, try looking at it in terms of entire vectors. Let’s review a bit. The best linear approximation to a differentiable function $f:\mathbb R^2\to\mathbb R$ near $\mathbf v$ is via its differential: $$f(\mathbf v+\Delta\mathbf v)=f(\mathbf v)+\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\Delta\mathbf v]$$ plus a small error. In terms of the tangent plane at $\mathbf v$ this says, as you know, that to find the approximate change in $f$ for some distance and direction given by $\Delta\mathbf v$, we can move that distance and direction along the tangent plane at $\mathbf v$. The inclination of this plane is encoded in the differential $\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}$, which is a linear map that takes a vector and returns a scalar.
Since $\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}$ is linear, $$\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[a\mathbf w_1+b\mathbf w_2]=a\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\mathbf w_1]+b\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\mathbf w_2].\tag{1}$$ If $\mathbf u$ is a unit vector, then $\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\mathbf u]$ is just the directional derivative in the direction of $\mathbf u$, which measures the slope of the tangent plane in that direction. Relative to the standard basis, then, we have the familiar $$\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\Delta\mathbf v]=\Delta x\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\mathbf e_x]+\Delta y\operatorname{d}f_{\mathbf v}[\mathbf e_y] = f_x(\mathbf v)\Delta x+f_y(\mathbf v)\Delta y,\tag{2}$$ since the partial derivatives $f_x$ and $f_y$ are just the directional derivatives in the directions of the coordinate axes. We can use a different pair of unit vectors $\mathbf u_1$ and $\mathbf u_2$, though. Referring to (1) we see that in that case $\Delta x$ and $\Delta y$ in (2) are replaced by the components of $\Delta\mathbf v$ in those directions and the partial derivatives are replaced by the respective directional derivatives.
That’s exactly what you’ve been given in this problem: a pair of linearly independent unit vectors and the directional derivatives in those directions. All that remains for you to do is to express the displacement $\Delta\mathbf v$ in terms of these two vectors and then put it all together.