It's probably better to expand Mick A comment.
First of all, the comment is right when $T_1$ and $T_2$ are independent. Note that in real system that's usually not the case since there are events fatal for both diodes. For independent model, as it was shown, $F_{\text{max}}(t) = F(t)^2$ thus probability density $p_{\text{max}}(t) = 2p(t)F(t)$ and expectation of lifetime ("average lifetime") $ET_{\text{max}} = 2\int_0^{+\infty}tp(t)F(t)dt$ (if average lifetime of a single diode exists - it should - then this integral converges since it's less than $2\int_0^{+\infty}tp(t)dt = 2ET$). There seems to be no reasonable way to express $ET_\text{max}$ in terms of moments of $T$ in general case (see this question for uniform distribution case, this and this for Gaussian (normal)).
One possible trick for computing $ET_\text{max}$ is taking $u=F(t)$, then $ET_\text{max}=2\int_0^1uF^{-1}(u)du$.