While I know that both addition and multiplication are commutative operations, I can easily visualize that, e.g. 3 + 4 = 4 + 3 = 7 by thinking of seven objects in a row and separating them into two heaps of three and four objects, respectively. Now it's trivial to conclude that commutativity of addition amounts to labeling which one of the heaps is first and whics one is the second. This is arbitrary, therefore addition is commutative.
However, I cannot find a similar visualization to help me see why 3 x 4 = 4 x 3 = 12. I'm sure there must be a way.