I've recently begun self studying general relativity, using mostly the material found in Robert Wald's "General Relativity", and almost right out of the gate one encounters the notion of a tensor. In Wald's book a $(k,l)$-tensor is simply defined as a multilinear map
$$T : \underset{k-times}{\underbrace{V^*\times \cdots \times V^*}} \times \underset{l-times}{\underbrace{V\times \cdots \times V}} \rightarrow \mathbb{R}$$
where $V$ is a vector space over the reals and $V^*$ is it's corresponding dual space.
My problem with tensors is not so much what they are but rather it stems from a more intuitive standpoint, namely, why use tensors in the first place? Although I suppose it's likely that if I had a better understanding of what they are I would see why they are useful.
Just to provide some context, my first brush with tensors was during an analysis course on manifolds and the discussion of general tensors of the above form ultimately lead to dealing specifically with differential forms, since then this is the only other time i've encountered them. In any case, both in that class and my recent investigation into GR it seems to be that tensors are the natural tool for analyzing manifolds from a differential viewpoint, and my question is: why is that?
To me they seem to be exactly what they are defined to be; multilinear maps, and I just don't see why they are the weapon of choice, per se, for dealing with these sort of ''small (differential-type) changes''.
If you have encountered anything that would aid in building intuition as to why tensors are useful in this context, I would love to hear/read it and it would be greatly appreciated.