I'm reading about tensor products of modules and I don't understand the following paragraph on page 2:
Even though elements of $M \times N$ and $M \oplus N$ are written in the same way, as pairs $(m, n)$, bilinear functions $M \times N \rightarrow P$ should not be confused with linear functions $M \oplus N \rightarrow P $. For example, addition as a function $ R \oplus R \rightarrow R $ is linear, but as a function $R \times R \rightarrow R$ it is not bilinear. Multiplication as a function $R \times R \rightarrow R$ is bilinear, but as a function $R \oplus R \rightarrow R$ it is not linear. Linear functions are generalized additions and bilinear functions are generalized multiplications.
My questions are:
Why the distinction between $\times$ and $\oplus$? Aren't they the same for finite sums (products)?
I don't understand how addition can be linear but not bilinear. Surely, if $(a,b) \mapsto a + b$ then it doesn't matter in which argument it is linear. (Thinking of e.g. $\mathbb{Z} \times \mathbb{Z} \rightarrow \mathbb{Z}$)
And if $(a,b) \mapsto ab$ then how can it be linear in both arguments (bilinear) but not be in one (linear). It's difficult to write this sentence as it makes no sense to me whatsoever.
Many thanks for your help!