I know this might sound silly but, it's easy to convince myself that $|A\cup B|=|A|+|B|-|A\cap B|$ but i'm not sure how i would go about proving it.
Suppose $A'=A\setminus\{a\}$ and $|A|=n+1$ for some positive integer $n$ then $\begin{align} |A\cup B|&=|A'\cup B|+|\{a\}|\\ & =|A'|+|B|-|A'\cap B|+ |\{a\}|\\ & =|A|+|B|-|A\cap B| \end{align}$
So is this correct??