The definition is quite subtle, but I will explain exactly what
$\lim_{x\to{x_0}} f(x) $
means.
Def. Let $f(x)$ be function defined for all $ x \neq x_0$, letting $L$ be a real number, we have hence:
$\lim_{x\to{x_0}} f(x) = L$
if, for every $\varepsilon > 0$, there is a $\delta > 0$, such that if $0 < |x- x_0|< \delta$, hence $|f(x) - L| < \varepsilon$.
Now, we will make everything clear. What the definition says is: if you pick an $ \varepsilon > 0$ (fixes it!), a positive number in the vertical $y$ axis, then naturally, if you draw a horizontal line in between $L+\varepsilon$ and $L-\varepsilon$, (for a prefixed L obviously), if you touch this line with the $f(x)$, you are going to have a point of intersection, with coordinates $(\delta, \varepsilon)$, however $\delta$ varies, in the sense that you can have each time, smaller intervalls within the intervall $\delta + x_0$ and $ x_0 - \delta$, so you can pick another number $\delta_0$ such that the intervall $(x_0 - \delta_0, x_0 + \delta_0)$ is "inside" the interval $(x_0 - \delta, x_0 + \delta)$.
Now, this $\delta$ exists, and it depends on $\varepsilon$, and it's clear that if x is in a distance to $x_0$ smaller than $\delta$, if we repeat the process of "line association" we've done, then, we'll obtain naturally y's in the y axis closer to $L$ than $\varepsilon$ the distance we have started with. I think that examples are important, but in this case it can diverge, however if we think a bit beyond, we can do the following:
- Pick $\varepsilon > 0$
- Pick $\delta = \frac{\varepsilon}{k*}$, (which is clearly smaller than $\varepsilon$!), in such a way that when we put in the special property we get the $|x - x_0| < \varepsilon$. This pick a $\delta$ isn't arbitrary, so you have to manipulate the limit in order to find an $\varepsilon$; the thing to keep in mind is to make $|x - x_0|$ appears somewhere.
- Then naturally it's clear that the definition we gave will hold.
*k is a number greater equal to 1.