The OP wrote: "Standard $\mathbb N$ doesn't contain any infinitely large integers." This is true, but $\mathbb N$ can contain unlimited integers. To clarify this, it is helpful to compare the model-theoretic and the axiomatic approaches to NSA. In the model-theoretic approach, there are three types of entities: (m1) natural extensions of standard sets, (m2) internal sets, and (m3) external sets. In axiomatic approaches such as Edward Nelson's IST (which is the basis of Robert's book) , there are only two types of entities: (a1) standard and (a2) nonstandard. Standard entities (a1) correspond to natural extensions of standard sets (m1), and nonstandard entities (a2) correspond to internal sets (m2). There are no entities in IST corresponding to external sets (m3). For example, the $\mathbb N^\ast$ of (m1) corresponds to $\mathbb N$ of (a1). Just as the $\mathbb N^\ast$ of (m1) contains a nonstandard integer $\mu$, so does the $\mathbb N$ of (a1) contain a nonstandard integer $\mu$. In the context of model-theoretic approaches, such a $\mu$ would sometimes be called infinite or unlimited. In the context of axiomatic theories, $\mu$ can be called unlimited, but it is preferable not to refer to it as infinite to avoid confusion (after all, being a member of $\mathbb N$, the number $\mu$ is finite by definition).
How does one provide a satisfying philosophical picture for such a situation? I would like to emphasize that several approaches are possible. Since we are discussing Nelson's IST, I will outline Nelson's own picture. Nelson would say that the unlimited integers have been there in $\mathbb N$ all along, it's just that we couldn't detect them because we lacked the tools to do so. The necessary tool is the standardness predicate st that in particular distinguishes between standard and nonstandard integers. So Nelson would say that it is the original $\mathbb N$ and it has nonstandard stuff in it (though the latter only seems "new"). To put it another way, the richer st-$\in$-language enables us to discern more entities than the $\in$-language of set theory such as ZF (here $\in$ is of course the membership relation).
I should emphasize that this is only one possible philosophical picture among a few; see this article for more details. Meanwhile, the precise mathematical situation is as outlined in the first paragraph above. See also this related post.