When trying to make sense of locales and comparing to usual topologies, I realized I have no idea how topologies relate to my everyday intuition of space. To make the question simpler, I'll restrict the question to a particular case.
Take a finite sheet of paper and deform it without cutting it. This could be represented by a map $f:[0,1]^2 \to \mathbb{R}^3$. Continuity requires that for every point and every small ball containing it in the deformed sheet has an original smaller circle inside it. This clearly is the case. But what about the converse?
It is not obvious to me at all that given a map $f:[0,1]^2 \to \mathbb{R}^3$ this condition of balls and circles will coincide with my intuitive geometric notion of deformation (even modulo stuff like self intersection, stretching, etc). This is not a precise question of course, as intuitive geometric notion of deformation is not well defined, but still I hope the question is understandable and I'd appreciate any comments on this.
This is related to How to Axiomize the Notion of "Continuous Space"? and the other questions linked there but I think there hasn't been an spelled out example so far.