I understand that you can create a bijection from $\mathbb{N}$ to $\mathbb{Z}$ such that to every natural number you can assign an integer (e.g. this one). Therefore, one knows that both sets have the same cardinal.
The problem I encounter is that even when you can "make pairs" and not leave any element from either set, it's also true that one set has more elements than the other. Namely:
- If we consider $0\in\mathbb{N}$, then $\mathbb{Z}-\mathbb{N}=\{-1,-2,-3,...\}$.
- Else: $\mathbb{Z}-\mathbb{N}=\{0,-1,-2,-3,...\}$.
So can we really say that both have the same size but one has more elements than the other? What is the real meaning? Is size in this case defined not as the number of elements in both sets but in their tendency? That is, if they tend to have the same number of elements, not if they have the same exact quantity.