The sentence "Betty told every secretary a lie" does not specify whether the lie was determined for each person or whether every person received the same lie. Formally, it does not specify the order of the quantifiers. As you put it, we don't know whether it is the same lie or potentially a different lie.
First, we define our predicates and constants. Let b = Betty, L(x) mean "x is a lie", let S(x) mean "x is a secretary", and let T(x,y,z) mean "x told y to z."
For same lie, we want the lie to be picked on the outset. That means the lie quantifier should come first. Thus we have
$\exists x ~ \left[L(x) \: \land \:\forall y ~ \big(S(y) \to T(b,x,y)\big) \right]$
This translates back to English as "There exists an x such that x is a lie and for all y, if y is a secretary, Betty told x to y." Less formally, "There exists a lie x such that for any secretary named y, Betty told the lie x to y." This sounds good!
For a different lie, we want Betty to find a secretary first, and then pick the lie afterwards. This means the existential quantifier comes after the universal quantifier on the secretary. Therefore, we have,
$\forall y \left[S(y) \to \exists x ~ \big( \:L(x) \land T(b,x,y)\: \big) \right]$
This translates back to English as "For all y, if y is a secretary, then there exists an x such that x is a lie and Betty told x to y." Less formally, "For any secretary named y, there exists a lie x that Betty told to y." This sounds good. Note that this sentence doesn't imply Betty told every secretary a different lie; that is possible, but it is possible some lies were the same. If we wanted the lie to be unique, we would have to add
$\forall y \left\{S(y) \to \exists x ~ \left[ \:L(x) \: \land \: T(b,x,y)\: \land \: \forall z ~ \big((S(z) \land z \neq y) \to \lnot T(b,x,z) \big) \:\right] \right\}.$
This translates to, "For any secretary y, there exists a lie x such that Betty told that lie x to y and for any other secretary z, Betty did not tell that lie x to z."
However, I believe the question didn't intend for you to specify that it was a unique lie, just that it could be a different lie. So I believe you can ignore this third version.
Hope this helps!