I've been casually reading up on group theory recently, and I want to get a really solid and motivated understanding of where all the definitions we use come from.
Notions like the center of a group seem utterly natural to give a name to; all those elements that commute with the whole group $G$, which is easily proven a subgroup.
Normal subgroups however are slightly more mysterious. Closure under conjugation by arbitrary $g \in G$ seems like a natural idea once we've decided we care about conjugation, but it's not obvious to me why this should be privileged above all other automorphisms.
Is conjugation provably unique in some significant way; why is there not some other use of group operations defining alternatively "inner" automorphisms? Why are normal subgroups so much more significant than other subgroups, closed under other automorphisms; can we justify conjugation's significance without hand-waving about later useful applications?