This question dives into philosophy, but I'll give you two glimpses of perspectives on what numbers can be seen as:
Abstract algebra
As user peak-a-boo put it, it's not really about what numbers are, but about what properties they satisfy.
In abstract algebra, you want to use general symbols and combine them with general operators, because when writing "$x \cdot y$" you may mean:
- The multiplication of two natural numbers
- The composition of two moves on a Rubik's cube
- The concatenation of two strings
- The multiplication of two matrices
- The composition of two rotations
- ...
So sets with operations with common properties are classified as algebraic structures (monoids, groups, rings, fields, vector spaces...)
The sets $\mathbb N$, $\mathbb Q$, $\mathbb R$, $\mathbb C$ etc. are just sets with operations, and so they're individually no different from the other sets whose elements behave in the same way (defining "same" in a very special way that you'll learn once you get into abstract algebra).
Set theory
Another way to look at this is from a set-theoretical point of view. If you want to define the natural numbers in an intuitive way you may want to write $0$ as $Z$, $1$ as $SZ$, $2$ as $SSZ$ and so on, adding an $S$ for each natural number. In this way there is no such thing as "symbols pointing to meaning", as the symbols themselves encapsulate the meaning directly (whereas base representations rely on the definition of addition and multiplication, so they're more "circular").
Now you can define bijective mappings (which, you'll learn are a form of "sameness") from the natural numbers to every other countable set, hence you can treat, say, the couples of numbers $(a,b) \in \mathbb N ^2$ as "basically the naturals", and you can do the same thing with other sets such as the rationals, or (since I see you've been studying relations) the kleene star (transitive and reflexive closure) of any finite or countable alphabet.
So, in set theory, you can transform the intuitive notion of the natural numbers to that of any other countable set.
Conclusion
There sure are other, more practical intuitions for what numbers are: the naturals are the numbers one uses to count, the integers are the numbers used to count in two distinct directions, and I won't get into the engineer-ish intuitions of what the real numbers are, but let's say they're used for "real world measures". Other than that, there are many things in mathematics that need not point to any real world thing. You won't meet any infinity-categories at the supermarket, but by learning how mathematics is about connections and generalizations you'll start to appreciate how symbols are enough.