One misconception is that the factors are written out in order of magnitude size when we are trying to compare divisibility order, not size order. It might be confusing to do what I am about to do (which is why most text don't) but let's try listing the strings in order of divisibility
The factors of 60 can be in the following "threads":
$1, 2, 4, 12, 60$
$1, 2, 6, 12, 60$
$1, 2, 10, 20, 60$
$1, 2, 10, 30, 60$
$1, 3, 6, 12, 60$
$1, 3, 15, 30, 60$
$1, 5, 10, 20, 60$
$1, 5, 10, 30, 60$
$1, 5, 15, 60$.
Woosh, I probably missed a few. (That was actually more tedious than I thought it would be).
We can't compare $2$ with $3$ or $10$ with $12$ because the do not divide. But we don't have to.
A "total" order is one where any to values can be compared and one will be bigger and the other will be smaller. This is not a total order. But it is a partial order. And it does have transitivity so that if $a\mid b$ and $b\mid c$ we have $a\mid c$.
As such and these are all divisors of $60$ we will have $60\mid 60$ and $60 = 60\times 1$ that $60$ is the "biggest" and top of all the threads.
Now common divisors..... We can compare the common divisors and make the following threads:
$1, 2 , 4, 20$
$1, 2, 10, 20$
$1, 5, 10, 20$
In both cases $20$ is the biggest of all threads. We do not need to compare the incomparable. We do not need to compare $5$ to $2$ or $4$, nor do we have to compare $4$ to $5$ or $10$.