In my studies of complex differentiation, I've come across the following paradox concerning real partial derivatives:
In proofs of the Cauchy-Riemann equations, the fact that the limit \begin{align*} \frac{df}{dz}\Bigg\vert_{z=z_0}=\lim_{\Delta z\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(z_0+\Delta z)-f(z_0)}{\Delta z} \end{align*}
converges to the same value, independent of how $\Delta z$ approaches $0$. Using this fact, the equality
\begin{align} \frac{\partial f}{\partial x}\Bigg\vert_{z=z_0}=\lim_{\Delta x\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(z_0+\Delta x)-f(z_0)}{\Delta x}=\lim_{i\Delta y\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(z_0+i\Delta y)-f(z_0)}{i\Delta y}=\frac{\partial f}{\partial y}\Bigg\vert_{z=z_0} \end{align}
is arrived at, and is used to prove that the Cauchy-Riemann equations hold wherever $f$ is analytic.
The question, then, is: why does this equality of partial derivatives with the standard derivative, as well as with each other, $(\frac{df}{dz}=\frac{\partial f}{\partial x}=\frac{\partial f}{\partial y}$) hold when considering differentiation in $\mathbb{C}$, but not when considering multivariable differentiation in $\mathbb{R}^2$? For clearly, a function with a domain $D\subset\mathbb{R}^2$ are differentiable at many points where yield their partial derivatives differ: $\frac{\partial f}{\partial x}\neq\frac{\partial f}{\partial y}$, which apparently cannot occur in the case of complex partial derivatives. I'm not even quite sure what the analogous quantity of $\frac{df}{dz}$ would be in the real case.
What accounts for the difference in these two cases? What attribute does the complex plane possess that is absent in the real plane?
Thanks very much for reading - any help would be appreciated.