On the surface, this may seem like physics or cosmology, but I suspect my question has more to do with a misapplication of math. If it seems like a bad fit here, yell at me and I'll move it.
Let us suppose that outer space continues on without end, containing an infinite amount of mass and energy arranged in every possible permutation. Suppose also that the laws of physics are universal and invariant, and that there are no (or a negligible amount of) inaccessible regions of space due to ongoing inflation or similar.
Lastly, suppose that it turns out that some form of FTL travel is possible, be it wormholes or exotic matter powering an Alcubierre drive or whatever. Or to be more precise, suppose that via any mechanism, it is or will be possible to travel arbitrarily far in any direction you like in such a way that you are able to escape what we consider to be the observable universe. No entities are ultimately bound by their original light cones.
Granted it seems unlikely that we live in such a reality, but as far as I know, it's not absolutely out of the question. It would ensure that infinitely much life will be out there, so let's say Alice reasons there's got to be an alien very similar to her whom she'd like to meet, and if the two of them are alike enough, the alien would feel the same way about her. Independently, a similar-minded alien named Bob reaches the same conclusion.
Both Alice and Bob decide to find each other, and to be thorough about it, they upload to Von Neumann probes (classic Bob) and spread themselves out in every direction from their respective systems of origin. They travel at an effective rate greater than that at which the universe is expanding, if applicable.
So given all the painfully hand-wavy preamble, we reach my point of confusion; on the one hand, it seems inevitable that Alice and Bob will eventually make contact (i.e. their spheres of expansion will intersect). After all, they both started at essentially random points in space, and it seems like their origins must be a finite distance from each other, however far that may be, and so they should meet up after some finite amount of time.
Having said that, it also feels like nonsense. In particular, it seems like I may just be asking a convoluted version of something approximately like "Suppose you select two random integers, equally distributed over all possible integers; is the difference between them finite?" I know enough to know that selecting "random" integers in that way is some combination of ill-defined and impossible.
My question: Will Alice and Bob ever meet each other? More to the point, I'm wondering whether the two cases I've presented differ in any significant way. While this is ill-posed in the simpler numerical case I gave, it seems harder to justify if it's grounded in physics.
Does this mean that one of the assumptions I stipulated must be untrue on purely mathematical grounds? Or perhaps the universe does run on real numbers instead of discrete units, and the higher cardinality somehow rescues things. Or maybe this would be physical evidence that the Axiom of Choice is true in reality, in that the universe can "pick" two random matching people out of an infinity of options. Any insight or considered reaction would be helpful, and in lieu of receiving a concrete answer, I will accept the most useful reply.