My question is how one, in a general sense, calculates the Lie algebra for a given Lie group. Note, I have an engineering and not mathematics background, as such I am mostly interested in groups like $\mathrm{SO}(n)$ and $\mathrm{SE}(n)$.
Taking for example the group of unit-length complex numbers $z$ with multiplication as the operation, intuition says that the tangent space at identity $1+i0$ is $i \mathcal{R}$, but how does one find this rigorously? As intuition is likely difficult for more complicated spaces.
One very well known source from my domain, https://arxiv.org/abs/1812.01537, proposes that the structure of the Lie algebra can be found by differentiating the group constraint, in this case that would be \begin{align*} z^* z = 1 \,, \\ \frac{d}{dt} \Rightarrow z^*\dot{z} + \dot{z^*}z = 0 \,. \end{align*} He then goes on to say that an element of the Lie algebra $v^{\wedge}$ (where $v$ is the vector space velocity) is given by $$ v^{\wedge} = z^*\dot{z} = -\dot{z^*}z $$ and this equality is what I fail to understand, how the “velocity” is equal to $z^*\dot{z}$.
Perhaps someone can help me with my misunderstanding of this approach, and in my understanding of a general purpose process to follow for finding Lie algebra structure, e.g. for $\mathrm{SO}(3)$ or $\mathrm{SE}(3)$.