I saw the proof but I have no intuition for this. Please give me an intuitive picture to keep in mind alongside the proof.
I THINK this has to do with the group ITSELF being closed under group multiplication. This is because $[X,Y]$ is sort of a derivative of:
$$e^Xe^Ye^{-X}e^{-Y}$$
The above must ITSELF be a group member, being a product of group members. If $[X,Y]$ is sort of a derivative of this, then idk:
$$e^Xe^Ye^{-X}e^{-Y} \sim e^{[X,Y]}$$
If the LHS is a group member, so is the RHS. Which means $[X,Y]$ generates a group member. which means $[X,Y]$ is a linear combination of generators.
But the above feels hand wavy and probably wrong reasoning.