Your error has nothing to do with anything specfic to integration, it's a common mistake of how to approch limits.
Let's make a more simple example.
$$\forall n>0: 1= \frac 1n \times n = \frac1n(1+\ldots +1);\;n \text{ summands } $$
Taking the limit for $n \to \infty$, using your approach we get
$$\lim_{n \to \infty} \frac1n(1+\ldots +1) = \frac1\infty(1+\ldots+1)=0,$$
which is obviously wrong.
Your first error is in writing $\frac1\infty$, which is not a meaningful expression. There is a reason your instructors likely have tried to prevent you from doing that, and the reason is that the relations and rules for calculations we "grow up with" no longer work when one of the operands is $\infty$. More on that in a moment.
A reasonable approach is to split the limit into a product of 2 limits:
$$\lim_{n \to \infty} \frac1n(1+\ldots +1) = \lim_{n \to \infty} \frac1n \times \lim_{n \to \infty}n.$$
That isn't totally correct, but "mostly". You can formally do that only if you know that the limits you split into exist. But since you are trying to solve a problem, that is a good approach. If it turns out they do exist, good! If it turns out one of them doesn't exist, then at least it was worth a try and we need to look for other measures.
So what about those limits?
Obviously, $\lim_{n \to \infty} \frac1n=0$, no problem.
Also, $\lim_{n \to \infty}n = \infty$, also obvisouly.
Now there is a reason that the sequence $a_n=n$ is called diverging. It doesn't converge to any real number, just like $-1,+1,-1,+1,\ldots$ isn't converging to any real number. Writing $\lim_{n \to \infty}n = \infty$ is a very nice shorthand, that can be justified with topological arguments, it gives you some information of the behavior of $a_n=n$ that is more specific than "diverging". But, to recap, the "limit" $\infty$ is not a number you can calculate with.
And now, with this example, we can see, why this is so. The above example shows that in this specific case, considering the limit we want to calculate (which is $1$) we "would like" to have $0 \times \infty = 1$.
But if we change the product, we may "want" different outcomes, for example for taking the following example to the limit
$$n=\frac1n n^2,$$
we again get that the first factor $\frac1n$ tends to $0$ when $n$ tends to $\infty$ and the second factor $n^2$ tends to $\infty$. So for this case, we want $0 \times \infty$ to be $\infty$.
And if you consider the limit of
$$\frac1n=\frac1{n^2}n,$$
we see that in that case we want $0 \times \infty$ to be $0$.
So, to recap: $0 \times \infty$ is not a meaningful real number, as we can see in simple cases, it "would be equal" to different values, depending on how exactly we arrived at those $0$ and $\infty$.
To come back to your original problem: Your product
$$ = \lim _{n \to \infty } (\frac{1}{n})( \frac {1} {1+\frac{1}{n}} + \frac {1} {1+\frac{2}{n}} + \frac {1} {1+\frac{3}{n}} + ... +\frac {1} {2} )
$$
is very similar to my initial example, your fractions in the sum are just a bit more complicated. What may have fooled you is that each term there is obviously bounded from above by $1$. The problem is that the $\ldots$ hide the fact that you have an increasing number of those summands, so any one being bounded means nothing.
Just look at my above initial of
$$\forall n>0: 1= \frac1n(1+\ldots +1);\;n \text{ summands, } $$
each summand is a constant, but you have $n$ summands, so their sum is $n$, and this not bounded.