Let me just expand on Zev’s answer.
Any finite dimensional vector space $V$ has a unique linear topology. This essential comes from identifying $V$ with $\mathbb{R}^{\dim V}$. Although such an identification is not unique, it turns out that the topology on $V$ that comes from such identifications is. Moreover, the determinant map $\det:\operatorname{End} V\rightarrow\mathbb{R}$ is continuous in this topology. Indeed, under an identification of $V$ with $\mathbb{R}^{\dim V}$, the determinant map becomes a polynomial. Since a linear map is invertible if and only if it has a non-zero determinant, we have $\operatorname{Aut}V=\det^{-1}(\mathbb{R}\setminus\{0\})$. Since $\mathbb{R}\setminus\{0\}$ is open, and $\det$ is continuous, we conclude that $\operatorname{Aut}V\subseteq\operatorname{End}V$ is open. We obtain an answer to your first question by letting $V=T_eG$.
Now, if $U\subseteq V$ is open, for every $p\in U$ we have a natural identification of $T_pU$ with V. Namely, every vector $X\in T_pU$ is defined by a curve $\gamma:\mathbb{R}\rightarrow U$ such that $\gamma(0)=p$. Indeed, we define the action of $X$ on $f\in C^\infty(U)$ by $Xf:=(f\circ\gamma)'(0)$. However, $\gamma$, being a function between two vector spaces, has a derivative. In this particular case, this dervative is of the form $$\lim_{t\rightarrow 0}\frac{\gamma(t)-p}{t}=\tilde{X}.$$ We can then associate the vector $X$ to the vector $\tilde{X}$, showing there is a natural identification between $T_pU$ and $V$. We obtain an answer to your second question by letting $V$ be $\operatorname{End}(T_eG)$ and $U$ be $\operatorname{Aut} T_eG$.