I am taking a course on nonlinear optimization and came across this definition of a tangent cone in my lectures:
Let $\emptyset \neq M \subseteq \mathbb{R}^n$ and $x \in M$. Then the tangential cone of $M$ in $x$ is defined as: $T(M,x) = \{d \in \mathbb{R}^n : \exists \eta_k > 0, x_k \in M, \lim_{k \to \infty} x_k = x , \lim_{k \to \infty} \eta_k(x_k - x) = d \}$
I was then asked to show that $T(M,x)$ is always closed but I'm still struggling to see why. So far I have tried the following approach:
Let $(d_k)$ be a sequence within $T(M,x)$ such that $\lim_{k \to \infty} d_k = d$. I will attempt to show that $d \in T(M,x)$. Since $d_k \in T(M,x)$, for each $k$ we have two sequences $\eta_{k,n}$ and $x_{k,n}$ such that for all $k$: $$\lim_{n \to \infty} x_{k,n} = x$$ $$\lim_{n \to \infty} \eta_{k,n}(x_{k,n} - x) = d_k$$
Hence $\lim_{k \to \infty} \lim_{n \to \infty} \eta_{k,n}(x_{k,n} - x) = d$. Now this looks tantalizingly close to the definition of a vector in $T(M,x)$, if I can just "extract out" some sequence $\eta_t$ from $\eta_{k,n}$ and $x_t$ from $x_{k,n}$ and make the above limit works for $\eta_t$ and $x_t$, i.e: $$\lim_{t \to \infty} x_t = x$$ $$\lim_{t \to \infty} \eta_t(x_t - x) = d$$
However I am still stuck here. Is this a correct approach ? If so, how should I proceed ? If not, what should I do instead ? Thank you.