I have been looking at some of the posts here about expressing the ordered pair (a,b) in terms of sets as:
$$ (a,b) = \{\{a\},\{a,b\}\} $$
By definition, (a,b) is a set, so it should not 'care' about the order in which they are presented, so (a,b) should be equal to (b,a). I understand that the main property of ordered sets is that
(a,b) = (c,d) ,if and only if, a = c and b = d.
So
$$ (a,b) = \{\{a\},\{a,b\}\} = \{\{a, b\},\{a\}\} = \{\{c, d\},\{c\}\} = \{\{c\},\{c, d\}\} $$
How can I check the property of the set? Since they are sets I do not see how their order would now matter if it should not? If you can refer me to other sources, I have started a discrete book of math from scratch and they just showed the set definition without really explaining how it worked differently. Please keep your answer as simple as possible, I started this book as a recommendation from a math major to start learning math 'from scratch'.
What if we say $$ (a,b) = \{\{a\},\{b\}\} $$ wouldn't this obey the property such that if (a,b) = (c, d) then a= c and b =d?