In the theory of real options, the following calculation is pretty standard.
Suppose an asset $R_t$ follows a GBM: $$ d R_t = R_t (\mu\, dt + \sigma\, dz)\ . $$ We are interested in deriving a differential equation for a function $V(R)$ which represents the value of waiting to invest in said asset. The first thing ones does is apply Ito's lemma to obtain $$ d V = \left( \frac{1}{2} \sigma^2 R^2 V''+ \mu R V' \right) dt + \sigma R V' dz\ , $$ where the primes represent differentiation with respect to $R$. Then, from an arbitrage argument, one claims that the following must be satisfied: $$ \mathbb{E}[dV] = \rho V dt\ , $$ whence one derives a Cauchy-Euler equation for $V$.
We will just take the above condition on $\mathbb{E}[dV]$ as given. The crux of my question is the following: in derivations of the Cauchy-Euler equation, it is claimed that $$ \mathbb{E}[dV] = \frac{1}{2} \sigma^2 R^2 V''+ \mu R V'\ , $$ that is, the stochastic part of the Ito formula simply drops out. I would be grateful for a first-principles derivation of this claim. I can't even figure out how to proceed from the definition of the expected value $$ \mathbb{E}[X] = \int_\Omega X(\omega) dP(\omega)\ \implies ... ? $$ I am willing to take the properties of the stochastic integral on faith; I would just like to know how to apply them here!
The reason that I would like to do so, and this is the second part of my question, is that I would like to be able to compute the time-average of $dV$, defined for a process $X$ as $$ \mathbb{T}[X] = \lim_{T \to \infty} \frac{1}{T} \int_0^T X(t) dt\ . $$ I have a feeling that understanding how $\mathbb{E}[dV]$ is computed will help me understand how to proceed with $\mathbb{T}[X]$...but if anyone has any specific hints for this latter calculation, I would be more than grateful.
(I have a hunch that $$ \mathbb{T}[dV] = \frac{1}{2} \sigma^2 R^2 V''+ \left(\mu - \frac{\sigma^2}{2} \right) R V'\ , $$ but I do not know how to show this.)