I don't know if a proof is good enough explanation, but this is what works for me.
Lets take $ v \in \ker(T^*)$, we want to show that $ v \in \operatorname{Im}(T)^\perp$
so let's take $ v_2 \in \operatorname{Im}(T)$ and we want to show that $ \langle v,v_2 \rangle = 0$.
$ v_2 \in \operatorname{Im}(T)$ so there is $u \in V$ such that $ Tu = v_2$.
$$ \langle v,v_2 \rangle = \langle v, Tu \rangle = \langle T^*v, u \rangle = (v \in \ker T^*) = \langle 0, u \rangle = 0$$
On the other hand, if we take $ v \in \operatorname{Im}(T)^\perp$ and we want to show that $ v \in \ker T^*$, so we need to show that $T^*v = 0$
one way of showing it is using the norm.
$$ \lVert T^*v \rVert = \langle T^*v, T^*v \rangle = \langle v , T(T^*v) \rangle = (T(T^*v) \in \operatorname{Im}(T), v \in \operatorname{Im}(T)^\perp) = 0 $$
$$ \Rightarrow T^*v = 0$$
It wasn't an example but I hope it helps.