I have read What does "open set" mean in the concept of a topology? and studied the open set wiki, as well as reading through the open set definition of a topological space, but yet I am still not crystal clear on what exactly an open set actually is (and this concept of "open set" is required to be understood in order to dig into many areas of topology and elsewhere, so I am stuck currently, trying to resolve what open set actually means).
First, as one of the other answerer's in the first link points out:
In an abstract topological space, "open set" has no definition!
Which I think Wikipedia confirms, by saying:
A topological space is a set on which a topology is defined, which consists of a collection of subsets that are said to be open, and satisfy the axioms given below.
So basically, it sounds like a topological space is by definition composed of open sets? I am not sure.
The only example I really 80% get is the image:

The blue circle represents the set of points (x, y) satisfying x2 + y2 = r2. The red disk represents the set of points (x, y) satisfying x2 + y2 < r2. The red set is an open set, the blue set is its boundary set, and the union of the red and blue sets is a closed set.
That kind of makes sense, that the open set is everything except the boundary, but even then not really. Perhaps, is there another term we could pick other than calling it "open" (and "closed"), maybe taking inspiration from German or French or another language?
Anyways, we have this now to start (on the open sets wiki page):
A subset ${\displaystyle U}$ of the Euclidean n-space $R^n$ is open if, for every point x in ${\displaystyle U}$, there exists a positive real number $ε$ (depending on x) such that a point in $R^n$ belongs to ${\displaystyle U}$ as soon as its Euclidean distance from x is smaller than $ε$. Equivalently, a subset ${\displaystyle U}$ of $R^n$ is open if every point in ${\displaystyle U}$ is the center of an open ball contained in ${\displaystyle U}$.
Here I try to draw the first part out:
The green is the $R^n$, the blue is the open set $U$, the x is a random point in $U$, and the yellow is a point in $U$ because $ε$ is within a certain size. That's as much as I can understand from that sentence.
But even then, it doesn't make sense to me what we are talking about. And this is talking about in Euclidean space with the real numbers, so we are not even in the abstract realm of topological spaces yet.
Can you please try to provide an intuition closer to this? (which still doesn't make it easy to grok, but it is getting there)
What exactly is an open set? First if you could do better on my illustration (describing it better is all, no need to make an illustration unless it would help). And then but the main thing is, how to intuit the meaning of the topological notion of open set, given that you are defining the topology as being composed of open sets! Can you not compose a topology of closed sets? Either way, how do you conceptualize of the abstract notion of open sets?
Other resources that didn't quite help: