When analysts say "$\epsilon$ (or whatever greek symbol) can be chosen arbitrary small", do they really just mean we can take $\epsilon = 0$ or $\epsilon \to 0$ later?
When I asked myself this question, I immediately began doubting my understanding of limits.
That is $\forall \epsilon>0 ,\exists \delta > 0 :|x-a|<\delta \implies |f(x) - L|<\epsilon$.
I was taught that a very long time ago, a limit is something you approach very closely, but not exactly equal to. So what logic rule am I breaking if i take $\epsilon = |f(x) - L|$?
Also, what is the advantage of proving two things are equal by saying they are epsilon close to each other? Isn't this really just make it harder than it needs it to be?
EDIT
I have also noticed that some other definitions that uses epsilon distance instead of just saying they are equal to each other.
$f \in R(\alpha)$ on $[a,b] \iff \forall \epsilon >0, \exists$ partition $P$ such that $$U(f,P,\alpha) - L(f,P,\alpha) < \epsilon$$
Now what is wrong with saying
$f \in R(\alpha)$ on $[a,b] \iff \exists$ partition $P$ such that $$U(f,P,\alpha) = L(f,P,\alpha) $$