First for clarity I'll define things as I'm familiar with them:
A compactification of a non-compact topological space $X$ is a compact topological space $Y$ such that $X$ can be densley embedded in $Y$ .
In particular a compacitifaction is said to be a one-point compactification if $\left|Y\backslash X\right|=1$
The Alexandroff one-point compactification of a a topological space $\left(X,\mathcal{T}_{X}\right)$ is the set $X^{*}=X\cup\left\{ \infty\right\}$ for some element $\infty\notin X$ given the topology $$\mathcal{T}^{*}:=\mathcal{T}_{X}\cup\left\{ U\subseteq X^{*}\,|\,\infty\in U\,\wedge\, X\backslash U\,\mbox{is compact and closed in }\left(X,\mathcal{T}_{X}\right)\right\}$$ If $\left(X,\mathcal{T}_{X}\right)$ is a Hausdorff space one can omit the requirement that $X\backslash U$ is closed.
It is easy to show that given two choices of elements $\infty_{1},\infty_{2}\notin X$ the one-point compactifications $X\cup\left\{ \infty_{1}\right\}$ and $X\cup\left\{ \infty_{2}\right\}$ with the topology defined as that of the Alexandroff one-point compactification are homeomorphic. What I'm wondering is why isn't there another possible way to define the topology on $X^{*}$ that would also yield a compactification (which is in particular not homeomorphic to the Alexandroff one-point topology)
As far as I see it there are two approaches to answering this question:
Show that any topology on $X^{*}$ that yields a compact space in which $X$ is dense is homeomorphic to $\mathcal{T}^{*}$.
Show it's not possible to consturct any other topology on $X^{*}$ that results in a compactification.
I'm quite interested in seeing the reasoning to both approaches if possible. Thanks in advance!