Forgive my whiny tone -- I'm driving myself nuts. These questions have been driving me crazy and I'm losing objectivity. I need a serious introduction to coordinate-free geometry. Let me ask more than one question, not because I deserve multiple answers but because I want to show exactly how I am confused and thus get a better reference. I'm after a reference, not answers.
I've searched Amazon's book section and it returns books that are pretty obviously the stuff I studied back in the 70s. A google search for coordinate-free geometry tutorial tends to return stuff that breezes past all the elementary stuff and launches into differential geometry and so on. I'm not ready for that.
This was provoked by chapter 1 of Thorne and Blandford's book, wherein the dot product is defined by
$$A \cdot B = \frac{1}{4}[(A+B)^2 - (A-B)^2]$$
Now, I can expand the rhs with the best of them.
$$A \cdot B = \frac{1}{2}[AB + BA]$$
But, what, precisely, is $AB$ in the above? This is the kind of stuff I'm having trouble with. Where can I get a real introduction to coord-free geometry that will show me the algebra?
Allow me to drone on a bit. Since I'm having trouble getting graphics into my latex doc let me play a little fast and loose with my example. Consider the unit circle at the origin. There's a tangent line to that circle which is horizontal and runs through (0,1). That's what I think of when I hear the word tangent.
Aside: if I want to bend a sheet of aluminum I can take a knife and a straightedge and score a line on the aluminum and then bend it. OTOH, as Lincoln said, ``four score and seven years ago....'' Now, that's one word, score, used for two completely separate things.
Back to my question: If I try to read a book on manifolds I tend to run into tangent space. I can't get anyone to say that tangent space doesn't mean tangent at all. If we "reserve" tangent to mean straight lines sitting on curves, we don't "lose" anything by calling tangent space something like George space. That is, there's nothing tangent about tangent space. Right?
From the descriptions of tangent space it appears that what it really boils down to is the set of all vectors using the particular point as the origination point. That is, that's what I'm getting out of it. Ah, here's another way to get at my issue: I'm worried that there's something I'm missing in the descriptions of tangent space that somehow includes some facet of tangent.
(Sigh.) One more thing occurs to me: Two points, $P$ and $Q$. Deliberately ignoring/omitting the vectors between $P$ and $Q$, assuming I'm right about what a tangent space is, that means that a vector originating at $Q$ is not part of $P$'s tangent space. Am I right?
(Deeper sigh.) Also, I need a proper definition of this operator: $\otimes$.