I quote from the first chapter of Michael Spivak's Differential Geometry Volume I:
The precise definition of $\mathbb{P}^2$ uses the same trick that mathematicians always use when they want two things that are not equal to be equal. The points of $\mathbb{P}^2$ are defined to be the sets $\{p,-p\}$ for $p \in S^2$...
That passage burned itself into my brain when I first read it decades ago. My immediate reaction was, "I want the list! Where is the list of tricks like that?!"
In my studies I have kept an eye out for tricks that generalize, that carry over into a different area. I also watch out for very broad categories of trick that have different specific versions in different topics. I tutor math and physics and have compiled lists of "debugging" steps for when a student is stuck on a problem. But I have long suspected that there are far more powerful tricks out there that are common knowledge to mathematicians but not to mathematics students.
In an effort to clarify what I am asking, I will write my own best answer, and I hope others can improve, elaborate, or best of all add completely new items to the list.