You proposed definition
Let $f(x)$ be a function of $x$. If for every positive number $\delta$, however small it may be, there exists a number $\varepsilon$ such that whenever 0 $<$ |x - a| $<$ $\delta$ we have |f(x) - l| $<$ $\varepsilon$, then we say $f(x)$ tends to the limit $l$ as 'x tends to a' and write
$\lim_{x \to a}$ $f(x)$ = $l$
is a valid definition, but not for a limit. In fact, the bolded phrase is misleading
because if it is true for a single $\,\delta>0\,$ then it implies it is true for all smaller $\,\delta>0.\,$ Thus, it would be better phrased with small replaced with
large. What the definition defines is that the function $\,f(x)\,$ is bounded in
any deleted neighborhood of the real $\,a\,$ and furthermore, the value of the
real $\,l\,$ does not matter since we can always choose $\,\varepsilon\,$ big enough
so that the interval $\,(l-\varepsilon,l+\varepsilon)\,$ contains the interval
$\,[\liminf(f(x)),\limsup(f(x))]\,$ of the range of $\,f(x)\,$ where $\,x\,$ is restricted to $\, 0 < |x - a| < \delta.\,$ In fact, the real $\,a\,$ does not
matter for the same reason.
Also, there is now no need to restrict to a deleted neighborhood. The
restriction should be to $\, |x - a| < \delta\,$ instead because the value
$\,f(a)\,$ does not cause any problems since it only requires that the bounds
include it. Its value does not change the boundedness of the function. Note
that in the actual definition of continuity, you forgot to explictly state that both $\,a\,$ and $\,l\,$ are given reals. An improved version of your definition for a locally bounded function with the role of $\,a\,$ and $\,l\,$ made explicit is:
Let $f(x)$ be a function of $x$. If for every real $\,a\,$ and positive
real $\delta$, however large it may be, there exists reals $\varepsilon$
and $\,l\,$ such that
whenever $|x - a| < \delta$ we have $|f(x) - l| < \varepsilon,\,$ then we
say that $\,f(x)\,$ is a locally bounded function.