The duality between monomorphisms and epimorphisms is well understood in terms of the opposite category (reversing the arrows). However, it is much less obvious on intuitive level. To cite Notes on Category Theory
Intuitively, a monomorphism is a map which “does not map different things of X to the same thing in Y”. (p22)
An epimorphism, intuitively, is “something having full image” (p25)
These are not quite dual statements at all. I suspect that the culprit of this skewed duality might have something to do with the map nature of morphisms, and this intuition would simply fail for relations (as opposed to functions). Are there little more satisfactory explanations?