This is Exercise 1.6.14 of Robinson's "A Course in the Theory of Groups (Second Edition)". According to Approach0 and this search, it is new to MSE.
The Details:
The definition of the wreath product given in the book is quite intricate.
On page 32 and 33, ibid.,
Let $H$ and $K$ be permutation groups on sets $X$ and $Y$ respectively. [. . .]
If $\gamma\in H$, $y\in Y$, and $\kappa\in K$, define
$$\gamma(y):\begin{cases} (x,y) \mapsto (x\gamma, y) & \\ (x,y_1) \mapsto (x,y_1) & y_1\neq y,\end{cases}$$ and
$$\kappa^\ast: (x,y)\mapsto (x,y\kappa).$$
[. . .] The functions $\gamma\mapsto \gamma(y)$, with $y$ fixed, and $\kappa\mapsto \kappa^\ast$ are monomorphisms from $H$ and $K$ to ${\rm Sym}(X\times Y)$: let their images be $H(y)$ and $K^\ast$, respectively. Then the wreath product of $H$ and $K$ is the permutation group on $X\times Y$ [. . .]
$$H\wr K=\langle H(y), K^\ast\mid y\in Y\rangle.$$
[. . .]
[T]he base group $B$ of the wreath product [is]
$$B=\underset{y\in Y}{{\rm Dr}}\, H(y).$$
Here $\underset{y\in Y}{{\rm Dr}}\, H(y)$ is defined as in this question.
Standard Wreath Products:
On page 41 of the book,
If $H$ and $K$ are arbitrary groups, we can think of them as permutation groups on their underlying sets via the right regular representation and form their wreath product $W=H\wr K$: this is called the standard wreath product.
The Question:
Let $W=H\wr K$ be the standard wreath product of an abelian group $H\neq 1$ and an arbitrary group $K$. Prove that the centre of $W$ equals the set of elements in the base group all of whose components are equal. (This is called the diagonal subgroup of the base group.)
Thoughts:
I'm confused.
I'll work through an example.
Let $H=\Bbb Z_3$ and $K=D_3$, the dihedral group of order $6$. Then $W=H\wr K$ is given by viewing $H$ and $K$ acting on their underlying sets, like so:
$$h_H^\rho: x\mapsto xh\text{ and }k_K^\rho: x\mapsto xk.$$
Let $y\in \Bbb Z_3$ be fixed. I need to specify $\gamma(y)$ and $\kappa^\ast$, for $\gamma\in \Bbb Z_3$ and $\kappa\in D_3$, as in the definition above.
What do I do next?
The diagonal subgroup for $\Bbb Z_3\wr D_3$ is unclear to me, let alone for $H,K$ as in the question.
I chose $\Bbb Z_3$ because it is cyclic and $D_3$ because it is the smallest nonabelian group. These might be bad choices, seeing as though the standard wreath product, according to GroupNames, has order $162$.
Please help :)