There are two related notions, and similar notation; which may be confusing.
"Binary mod operator": given an integer $a$ and a positive integer $m$, the binary mod operator $a\bmod m$ (pronounced "$a$ mod $m$" or "$a$ modulo $m$") takes as value the remainder when dividing $a$ by $m$ (integer division with remainder); this remainder is assumed to satisfy $0\leq a\lt m$. (This may be different in some computer languages, where the value is taken to have least possible absolute value; so for example, $a\bmod 3$ could be $-1$, $0$, or $1$.) This is an operation: it takes to arguments ($a$ and $m$), and returns a value (the remainder).
The relation "mod $m$". We say that $a\equiv b\pmod{m}$ (pronounced "$a$ is congruent to $b$ modulo $m$) if and only if $m|a-b$. This is a binary relation on the integers. You take two integers, and either they are in the relation, or they are not. (In fact, it is an equivalence relation).
The connection between the two notions is the following:
Theorem. Let $m\gt 0$. For integers $a$ and $b$,
$$a\equiv b\pmod{m} \iff a\bmod m = b\bmod m.$$
That is: $a$ is congruent to $b$ modulo $m$ if and only if $a$ and $b$ leave the same remainder when you divide them by $m$.
Proof. Write $a=qm+r$, $0\leq r\lt m$, and $b=pm+s$, $0\leq s\lt m$. Without loss of generality, we may assume $s\leq r$.
Since $a-b = (q-p)m + (r-s)$, with $0\leq r-s\lt m$, we have that $m|a-b$ if and only if it divides $r-s$, if and only if $r-s=0$, if and only if $a\bmod m = r = s =b\bmod m$. $\Box$
So you could define "$a\equiv b\pmod{m}$ if and only if $a$ and $b$ have the same remainder when divided by $m$".
Note that you use $\equiv$ when you work with the equivalence relation, but you use $=$ when you work with the operator. Your final paragraph should really say that
if $x= y\bmod z$, then $x$ is the remainder of integer division of $y$ by $z$
But note the use of the "binary mod" (MathJax/$\LaTeX$ code \bmod
) and the equal sign. If you say "$x\equiv y \bmod{z}$ means that $x$ is the remainder of integer division of $y$ by $z$", then that's not technically correct, since you are mixing notations, and in addition, for instance $5\equiv 7\pmod{2}$, and $5$ is not the remainder when you divide $7$ by $2$; the remainder is $1$.
So the answer to your question 1 is that (i) as written it is false because you are mixing the relational and the operational mods, and they are not the same. But (ii) written correctly it asserts something about the mod operator, which is not the mod relation which is what the definition is about.