The following first equality is intuitively evident: $$ \lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{x+y+\frac{xy}{n}}{n}\right)^n = \lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{x+y}{n}\right)^n =e^{x+y} $$ how can I give a formal argument?
Informally it is something like $$ \lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{x+y+\frac{xy}{n}}{n}\right)^n =\lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{\lim_{n\to \infty}\left(x+y+\frac{xy}{n}\right)}{n}\right)^n =\lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{x+y}{n}\right)^n $$ Is there a "classical" property of sequences that backs this argument? Something like limit of composition, but here we speak of sequence only: $$ (b_n),\quad b_n \to b\quad\text{ for }n\to\infty \implies \lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{b_n}{n}\right)^n =\lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1+\frac{b}{n}\right)^n $$
EDIT As Qiaochu Yuan is important to define what I have already defined. This computation is at the beginning of "Real Analysis", lets say in the chapter of sequences. Later, in the notes of complex analysis, I develop formal series with derivation and everything is the standard way (I think).
By this question I tried another approach, very early (1) define $$ e^x = \lim_{n\to\infty}\left(1+\frac{x}{n}\right)^n $$ (2) derive the product as depicted in this question (3) derive the derivation of the $e^x$.
Thus I have (a) no logarithm, (b) no derivation of $e^x$ yet.