How can I intuitively see independent events?
This is the question to ask (assuming that event $A$ has a nonzero probability):
- Does knowing that event A happens change the probability of event $B$ ?
The definition of independence says, "if event $A$ doesn't influence
event $B,$ then these events are independent".
What does it mean for event $A$ to influence event $B$? In your given example, if event $A$ happens, then only one of event $B$'s three outcomes are possible, that is, event $B$ becomes restricted to happen in one way, down from three; surely this counts as event $A$ "influencing" event $B$ ? Yet, you have proven from definition that they are independent events.
So, your characterisation of independence of events is wrong or ill-defined.
Here's a example with rolling a dice:
$A = \{1, 2\}$ $B = \{2, 3, 4\}$
These two events $A$ and $B$ are proved to be independent events.
If I add '$1$' to event $B$ and call it event $C,$ i.e., $C = \{1, 2, 3, 4\},$ then $A$ and $C $ are not independent events.
Referring to the boldfaced characterisation above:
- Knowing that event $A$ happens means that event $B$ can happen only via the outcome '$2$'; but this doesn't change $B$'s probability $\left(\frac12\right),$ since knowing that $A$ happens also reduces the sample space from $\{1,2,3,4,5,6\}$ to $A=\{1, 2\}.$
- Knowing that event $A$ happens reduces the sample space from $\{1,2,3,4,5,6\}$ to $A=\{1, 2\},$ and at the same time means that event $C$ can happen only via the outcomes '$1$' and '$2$'; that is, knowing that $A$ happens changes $C$'s probability from $\frac23$ to $1.$
Visualising independence.